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“If you make a mistake or go off script, the audience most likely won’t notice,” says Jadiel Ortiz, a percussionist who plays for the South High Community School band in Worcester, Massachusetts. This advice highlights an essential part of presenting or performing: handling mistakes with confidence. Whether you’re delivering a speech or performing music, the way you manage the situation can affect how your audience perceives you.
First, you should be able to accept imperfection, as it is a part of the process. Often, the audience won’t notice small errors, so don’t stress them. The audience is generally focused on the message or performance, not minor slip ups. For example, if you were to play the wrong note, it’s better to keep going instead of starting over as the audience would be sure to notice. Nerves are natural, but staying calm is vital. Deep breathing can help you relax and focus. A calm demeanor not only helps you maintain control but also helps you recover quickly if something goes wrong.
Next, rehearsing is also important, but it shouldn’t be overdone. “You may sound too robotic, like you’re not engaging with a human audience,” Jadiel points out. Aim to be flexible and comfortable with the content, allowing space for improvisation if needed. Whether speaking or performing, engaging with your audience is crucial. Make eye contact, smile, and react to their feedback. This connection helps create a positive atmosphere and boosts your confidence. People want to be part of the experience, so acknowledge them.
Finally, rather than worrying about how you’re being perceived, concentrate on delivering your message. When you focus on the content, it’s easier to let go of self-doubt and perform confidently. Your audience is there to hear what you have to share, not to judge every move. Each time you present or perform, reflect on what went well and what can be improved. This reflection helps you grow more comfortable with public speaking or performing, and with each experience, you become more skilled.
Presenting or performing in front of a group is a skill that will only improve with practice. By accepting imperfections, engaging with your audience, staying calm, and focusing on your message, you’ll create a memorable experience–one that resonates far more than any mistake ever could.